The Top 5 American Geisha Tips to Lose Weight with Solo Sex

A lot of unnecessary eating occurs while you are home alone. When you are solo and tempted to snack at home, first try these five Solo Sex tips instead:

All you can try with no portion control. Solo Sex Weight Loss is not about calories counts and food restrictions. It’s about having fun.” These five tips are the easiest and most pleasant way to lose weight and also to reduce stress.

1. Strip naked, pull the bedcovers down, lie down then recall in detail for 5 minutes the best time you had great sex. You concentration on your fantasy (as well as your growing sexual excitement) will distract you from thoughts of food. And raise your metabolism, too.
2. Perhaps, begin to masturbate, perhaps to an orgasm that leaves your body totally unaware of and unconcerned about food. Sip cold water as you calm down.
3. Perhaps, with or without masturbation or orgasm, take a nap. Upon awakening, brush your teeth and tongue well, to provide the taste buds with a non-food treat. Be sure to brush your tongue at length. Follow this with a non-caloric drink if you like.
4. Fully dressed, put on a soft or hard-core video while watching from the couch or bed. Perhaps you’ll strip, get a vibrator, masturbate, reach orgasm, nap perhaps none of that. At least, you are not thinking of snacking. Again, perhaps include a non-caloric drink.
5. Go to the refrigerator, but not for food. Take a pen and paper to write your two affirmations you are going to post with two magnet-held. Take a non-caloric drink, then go lie down on your bed. Contemplate at length and write the two affirmations on what are more important in your life than food: something you want more than food (such as:
• I want to be thin and pretty woman to attract men; I care about my relationship with a good man than food
• I want to feel good about myself by losing weight more than food

The Lucky 13 Exotic and Romantic American Geisha Secrets in and out of Bed for Valentine’s Day:

Looking for some exotic and romantic Asian ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day?

Want something different and sexy from Asia this Valentine’s Day? Do you want to create your own day to express your love to your man? Do you want to become an exotic and sexy Couple as Geisha and Samurai on Valentine’s Day?

In Korea and Japan, February 14 is a day when the woman (not the man!) expresses her love to her man, giving him gifts, chocolates and flowers. Women these countries have lots of ways to make their men, their Samuari Warriors, happy both in and out of bed.

Here are the lucky 13 exotic and romantic American Geisha secrets you and your lover can use to become a Geisha and Samurai couple in and out of bed as you celebrate Valentine’s Day:

1. Explain to your man these Asian ways to celebrate Valentine’s Day, and that you want to be an American Geisha for him for the day.

2. Wear Kimono-style lingerie or an apron covering your bottom, otherwise totally naked.

3. Play YoYo Ma cello music, which was the “Memoirs of a Geisha” background music, or use any Asian music to get inspired by the Japanese geisha devotion to pleasing her Samurai Warrior.

4. In bed, eat sexy sushi finger food and dip it in washabi (which some Asians feel is an aphrodisiac), then eat with pickled ginger. Feed each other. Drink warm sake from tiny sake cups.

5. Feed him emotional dim-sum (Chinese meaning: feeling full and fat) to make him feel like a real man by stroking his ego all day and night long.

6. For dessert, slowly melt and suck one table spoon-size Hershey’s Mini Nuggets (any of the four varieties in each pack) as a sensual foreplay, both of you licking and sucking the nugget while holding it in your mouths and with your four lips. Then use your own imagination.

7. Buy one gift for both yourself and him: a vibrator or soft core X-rated video or something you can use for sex. Wrap it nicely. Use it within half-an-hour of his opening it.

8. Give a gift to him with your Valentine’s Day card with 3-line Haiku love poem or any free form of poem for him, saying, “Today is your night. I want to be your American Geisha. Will you be my Samurai Warrior. Love, Me.”

9. Make up 3 or 4 “Valentine’s Day Sex Coupons” that you put in with his Valentine’s Day card. Have an expiration date of 2-14-07; he must use them today. Each coupon represents a sexual fantasy or favorite of his, or something brand new to both of you.

10. After he uses up his coupons, let him know his sexual prowess makes you want ANYTHING more that he wants to do with you you.

11. While making love, stain character as a geisha and Samurai couple in order to make your lovemaking so incredibly different this one night a year.

12. Best of all: make him feel like your sexual Samurai Warrior by giving him total credit for your sexual excitement and orgasm/by making him feel like your hero. Be noisy; scream in ecstasy. Come hard and long. And often.

13. After his orgasm, get out of bed, put on your kimono, and bring to him your pre-prepared tray of a small, hot, wet towel, a drying towel, and a dab of face or body lotion. Clean up his manhood’s area, put dry and gently massage in the lotion. Be careful of his exhausted, but very sensitive manhood. Pull the sheet to his chin and let him sleep the sleep of “the little death,” his incredible with orgasm his beautiful, feminine, sexy American Geisha.

Have you got some tips to recommend. Tell me just in time for Valentine’s Day.

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If a man is very careful in his examination of a woman and her behaviors, he just might get a “heads up,” a clue that she is interested in him. Here are three such situations:

1. If she asks for help in any way, such as, “Excuse me, could you help me figure the tip on this bar tab. I’ve never had one before. What about the tax? Is it still 15 percent, like for food?” She is expressing her feminine need to fulfill a man’s psychological need to feel like a hero to a woman. You’ll be attracted to her neediness and you’re your ability to solve a problem for her (and by her expressed appreciation).

2. If she simply stays within your vision field or returns again and again to that place, where you keep seeing her. She is making herself available to you, to whom she is specifically attracted, so that you can take the masculine action of approaching her and so she can practice the receptive, feminine role of responding to your masculine pursuit of her. She is confident that she is some combination of femininity, beauty, and classy sexiness that you will eventually notice and approach if you are the kind of man she hopes you are.

3. If she seems thoughtful at times, almost distracted, so that you might fear she was bored and drifting mentally during your date. Instead, she may well be seriously considering, even on a first date, how well you seem to match the characteristics of a guy she could be interested in longer-term. If, after this period of thoughtfulness, she reconnects with you and is upbeat and enthusiastic (or even just calm yet happy to be with you), you have passed some attraction test and are, at least until she gets to know you better, someone she has attraction for and wants to see again.

My questions for you:

• To women: What do you do, to flirt with men to let them know you are interested?

• To men: What is it that women do that you interpret as showing some interest in you?

Py Kim Conant is the author of “Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man” (Hunter House). Py has appeared on radio shows nationally. Py teaches a class on “How to Be Married in a Year” for the Learning Annex in Los Angeles and San Diego. Looking for relationship, dating and sex tips? Visit Py’s website at http://www.AmericanGeishaHouse.com

With a happy, serene smile on my face and a sleepy, satiated look in my eyes, let me make clear to you, from my own earth-shattering personal experience and from my conclusive research, that the existence of the G-spot and female ejaculation is settled physiological fact, a discovery that can lead to the most intense pleasure and orgasmic release you will ever experience in your life! If that’s not worth a heartfelt “Gee!” (as in “gee”-spot) I don’t know what is.

In this blog, you will find and learn to stimulate your G-spot and will become that most feminine and sexual of American Geisha: a female ejaculator, a “shooter.”

Let me start by clearing up a commonly held misconception: The ejaculate you forcefully emit is a clear, somewhat sweet liquid that I call Gräfenberg Juice (after the doctor who clinically identified the G-spot). It is definitely not urine or even remotely related to urine.

The G-spot and female ejaculation really do exist. I know. I’m a female ejaculator, a “shooter.” If you, dear Younger Sister, are among those who are still unconvinced of this physio-sexual reality, this will be a life-changing chapter for you. Your sex life will never be the same, my oh so fortunate reader. I want to clearly convey to you my experience with female ejaculation, hoping that as I express myself you will both recognize the reality of this phenomenon and begin to imagine the possibilities for yourself. Here I tell my story in an open, explicit way that makes you feel like you are there, almost experiencing my ejaculation yourself.
Sometimes my husband, Rich, and I will be making love without any intention of my ejaculating, and then the idea will strike one of us. We’ll start to adjust our lovemaking to go in the direction of having a “shooting” orgasm, as we usually call it. Other times Rich might say, “Tonight is your night, baby. I want you to shoot into my mouth.” That excites me. But we never put pressure on me to ejaculate. It’s perfectly okay with both of us if I don’t. A lot of trust is involved in a G-spot, shooting orgasm, especially when you are doing it the first few times. You have to trust yourself that you can do it (but with no pressure). You have to trust that your partner will not have a negative reaction. At one point you’ll have to trust that the familiar feelings of needing to pee are in fact the feelings of imminent female ejaculation, not at all related to peeing.

I adapted this part from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (published by Hunter House). Due to Myspace policy (too graphic with x-rated), I can’t post any further about “A Most Outrageous Description of My Ejaculation…. But you can find more about from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha.

As part of my research, I asked both men and women what makes a woman feminine and sexy. I simply asked respondents what they felt made a woman feminine and sexy.

Here are some of their responses:
“She is receptive to a man’s suggestions and plans.”
“The flirting, the teasing, the suggestion.”
“She is comfortable being sexually provocative in her appearance.”
“She falls in love with me after she has a huge orgasm.”
“She is outrageous and sexy on the outside and inside.”
“She isn’t afraid of public affection.”
“She has a voyeuristic side to her.”
“She uses a few explicit words in the heat of passion.”
“She knows what pleases a man and herself.”
“She has a way of carrying herself.”
“She drips with sexuality.”
“She smells good, looks good, and sounds good.”
“She is appreciative of whatever I do.”
“It’s her way of talking to you or looking at you.”
“It’s her smile.”
“She uses her eyes to connect to you.”
“She shows her emotions.”
“She has poise.”
“She laughs freely and loudly and enjoys life.”
“She satisfies her man’s fantasies.”
“She accepts me for who I am.”
“She doesn’t take life too seriously.”
“She’s a little bit playful.”
“She is confident in her beauty.”
“She is beautiful and exciting to look at.”
“She is a ferocious feline in bed.”
“She tells me what she likes [sexually].”
“She screams [during sex].”
“She gets excited [sexually].”
“She never pushes me away [sexually].”
“She never uses sex for power.”
“She is shy and naïve outside; inside, she has a huge sexual desire.”
“She is sexual, sensual, and erotic.”
“Her clothing slightly reveals some of her body.”
“She gives a hint of what lies underneath her clothes.”
“She is smolderingly sexy, but always classy, in public.”
“She is responsive to the slightest touch.”
“She easily reaches multiple orgasms.”
“She is extremely oral, both giving and receiving.”
“She has highly responsive nipples.”

Adapted from "Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man." (published by Hunter House)